You could apply this to robbing really. Nox ruined for the game for many players and found it funny, made a 'cool' video with a list of items to show how badass they were and rub salt into the wounds of whoever they could. Was that lame or funny? I found it funny, Im sure there were many who didnt. Did the people that got robbed (of sometimes months worth of playing time) have the option to say "actually boys, i find this whole getting robbed thing pretty lame, gonna just sit this one out"-no. You might not like it when someone ruins your enjoyment of the game by saying "Alright, enough talk, time to die" but some people dont like it when they get ganked whilst hunting even if theyve had a 30 second conversation. Swings and roundabouts as the saying goes....and instead of being quiet and let the other players enjoy the moment, they focus on RUINING it with lame "funny" stuff simply because they might find the whole consept of RP retarded and childish. It's like playing soccer, if you don't like it, stay at the bench and let those play who enjoy doing it. Do not go running around making own goals, ruining it for everyone else, your own team and your opponent just because you think the game is stupid, childish and retarded.
Whats irritating about you Darian is you have this holier than thou attitude and persona on the forums which would suggest you have never done anything to grief anyone on the shard ever when in reality thats not the case. If I learnt the art of griefing anywhere it was from players in Tek, AP and Nox.
As far as sitting something out goes when it comes to joint-RP ventures its not quite as easy as that. What if it was something that affected the direction of the religion significantly? Or portrayed the religion in a way you didnt like? Its quite hard if you actually give a shit about the game to just be like oh well then I'll just ignore it. Hypothetically...if it came about from some joint RP that, in your opinion, made Tekstone look weak or that it was going in a direction that you and a few others didnt like im 100% sure you would do something about it either IG or OOC or both to sabotage it.
To staff id say just basically ignore this topic. These arguements are between players who probably can only agree on one thing- that we're greatful for you giving up your time to run the shard and for continuing to try making it better.